The holiday season is a time of joy, celebration, and connection—but it can also be busy and overwhelming. Between work deadlines, social obligations, and gift shopping, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters: the relationships we cherish. This season, why not take a step back and focus on building stronger, more meaningful connections with those around you? Whether it’s with family, friends, or coworkers, the holidays offer a perfect opportunity to foster deeper bonds and create lasting memories. Here’s how to make the most of this special time.
- Schedule Quality Time
Carve out intentional time to create memories with loved ones. For example, my family takes a night to visit the lights in downtown Salt Lake City. We combine this outing with donating through the Giving Machines, which allows us to give back to others while enjoying time together. Afterward, we end the evening with a nice family dinner at a favorite restaurant, a tradition that reinforces our connection.
- Start a Tradition of Creation
Bonding happens naturally when working together. In December, my family spends a day baking sugar cookies and making homemade chocolates. Another day is dedicated to making homemade salsa, which we give as neighbor gifts. These shared projects create laughter, conversation, and memories that last long after the season ends.
- Host a Special Family Dinner
Setting aside a night for an intimate family meal can deepen connections. Each year, we have a special dinner on December 23rd or 24th, complete with chicken cordon bleu, creamy mashed potatoes with bacon and cheese, brown sugar pecan sweet potatoes, and homemade rolls served on our best china. During this dinner, we exchange spiritual gifts, creating a meaningful moment of connection and reflection amidst the holiday hustle.
- Practice Active Listening
Holiday gatherings are the perfect opportunity to truly listen. Whether it’s during a family dinner or a quiet moment with a friend, focus on hearing their stories, thoughts, and feelings without distraction. Giving someone your full attention can strengthen bonds in profound ways.
- Celebrate with Extended Family
Holiday traditions with extended family bring a sense of unity. My in-laws host an annual gathering featuring games, a reading of the Christmas story, and homemade soups in bread bowls. We also release balloons to celebrate Jesus Christ’s birthday and exchange thoughtful gifts—pajamas for the kids and books for the adults. It’s a night filled with love and connection that we all cherish.
- Express Gratitude
Take time to thank the people in your life for their impact. A heartfelt note or even a simple conversation can mean the world. I also carry this mindset into my workplace by hosting an appreciation dinner for my employees and their spouses—a small gesture to show gratitude for their hard work.
- Reconnect with Distant Friends or Family
Use the season as a reason to rekindle relationships. A phone call, a handwritten card, or a small gift can remind people how much they mean to you, even if distance or time has created a gap.
- Be Intentional with Gifts
Focus on meaningful gifts that show thoughtfulness. This doesn’t have to mean spending a lot; sometimes the best gifts are handmade or speak to the recipient’s unique interests. For example, our family salsa gifts are a hit with our neighbors because they’re personal and made with care.
- Celebrate Coworkers’ Contributions
The workplace can feel like a second family, and the holidays are a wonderful time to show your appreciation for the people who help your business thrive. At Driggs Search, at times we have hosted an elegant, sit-down dinner for my employees and their spouses. This isn’t just any dinner—it’s a special evening at a high-end restaurant, complete with great food and a heartfelt thank-you for their hard work and contributions throughout the year. Beyond the meal itself, the experience fosters camaraderie, builds morale, and shows that their efforts don’t go unnoticed. Even a personalized note or a thoughtful gesture can go a long way in strengthening connections with your team during the holiday season.
- Give Back Together
There’s no better way to bond than by serving others. Whether through organized efforts like the Giving Machines or volunteering at a local shelter, giving back can bring people closer and remind everyone of the true spirit of the holidays.
By blending time-honored traditions with intentional practices, you can use the holidays as an opportunity to build deeper connections with family, friends, and coworkers. Whether it’s starting a new tradition or simply spending quality time together, these tips will help make this season your most meaningful yet.