Thanksgiving has always been more than just a holiday in my family—it’s a gathering of traditions, connection, and gratitude that we look forward to all year long. As we escape the cold Utah air and head to the warmth of Arizona each November, the week becomes a beautiful blend of food, family, and service. It’s not just about the meal (though with two kinds of turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, yams, and 20 pies, it’s hard not to focus on it!). It’s about the lessons learned around the table, the basketball court, on hiking trails, and even the pickleball court. Here are five lessons I’ve learned from the traditions we hold dear each Thanksgiving.
1. The Power of Togetherness
Thanksgiving is a reminder that no matter how busy life gets, taking the time to gather with loved ones is priceless. Whether it’s sharing a meal, competing in a basketball or pickleball game, or laughing over a closing dance party where we guess everyone’s favorite song, the joy of being with siblings, parents, and cousins brings a sense of belonging and connection that fuels my family for the rest of the year.
2. Great Food Brings Us Together
Preparing and enjoying a meal as grand as ours is more than just a culinary adventure—it’s an expression of love. From the Gulliver’s creamed corn, Mexican chorizo cornbread stuffing, and brown sugar pecan sweet potatoes inspired by Modern Honey to the crazy assortment of pies, every dish tells a story. And with so many dishes to choose from, our meals spark laughter and conversations over second (or third) helpings.
3. The Joy of Giving Back
My parents, Ken and Kerry Driggs, have instilled in all of us the importance of service. Whether assembling kits for homeless shelters, shopping for underprivileged families, or delivering meals to widowed neighbors, these projects remind us that gratitude isn’t just something we feel—it’s something we share. These meaningful moments deepen our connection to each other and to those in need.
4. Creating Memories Through Tradition
The traditions we’ve built—from our family hike at the start of the week to the competitive basketball and pickleball tournaments, and, of course, the customary 20-pie dessert table—are cherished memories that connect generations. The week ends on a high note with our closing dance party, where we try to guess everyone’s favorite song submitted to Uncle Ryan. These moments, big and small, are what our kids will one day carry forward with their own families.
5. Gratitude Is a Way of Life
Thanksgiving is a time to pause and appreciate the blessings in our lives. Surrounded by family, great food, meaningful traditions, and acts of kindness, I’m reminded that gratitude is not just a holiday sentiment but a mindset that enriches our daily lives.
Thanksgiving at the Driggs home isn’t just a holiday—it’s a celebration of love, service, and connection. These lessons remind me each year of what truly matters, and I hope they resonate with you as well. This Thanksgiving, may we all find moments of gratitude, connection, and joy to carry forward in our lives.